Nothing is absolute,No matter how good things are, they have bad sides.No matter how bad things are, there are good sides.There are advantages in the shortcomings of the child,Let the advantages of the child's shortcomings be enlarged,Advantages defeat disadvantages,The child's shortcomings become advantages.Then,How can the shortcomings of the children be turned into advantages?Everyone may wish to try the following tricks:
Make the most of the situation Most children have the shortcomings of lying.In a way,Children who are good at lying have brains,Thoughtful,Have the ability to solve and deal with things independently.Seeing this advantage,Parents should lie according to the child's frequency of lying,The severity of the matter,Guide the child.
E.g,The child did a terrible exam,But I told my parents that I did a good job.This lie is a bit big,It's not enough to let the child make corrections quietly.You should have a good talk with your children,Say: You are right to want parents to be proud of you,But seeking truth from facts is wrong.You should continue to carry forward the spirit of making parents proud of you,But with practical actions,To use real results,Rather than making false statements.When parents criticize their children's shortcomings,First of all affirmed that his motivation is good,Children will recognize their mistakes,So as to carry forward the good motivation.
Prescribe the right medicine for the child's shortcomings,Guidance in different ways of education.
such as,When children are shopping for their parents,Often give parents extra things that parents like to eat,Then set aside a small amount of money for your own use,Raise the price of those things when reporting to the parents.This is not a good habit,For a long time,Children will have the idea of getting something for nothing.But if you look at it dialectically,This also contains the child's filial piety to the parents.In this case,Parents are about to prescribe the right medicine.Parents can say to their children: children,You think of me every time you buy something,I am very moved,If you can buy me something with the money you earn,I will be truly moved,And I will be proud of having a sensible and filial child like you.After the child listened,Will be deeply encouraged,Will gradually get rid of this problem in the future,And planted an idea in my heart: I want to make money,Buy things for parents with their own money,Moved them,Make them proud.
There are many tricks to guide children to turn their shortcomings into advantages.Parents should analyze carefully,research seriously.Everyone has shortcomings,Make mistakes,But if he can see the advantages in shortcomings and mistakes,And zoom it out,Our children are even cuter.